Ok, so everyone has their pet peeves for what *not* to say, but what have you heard from family, friends and strangers that came as music to your ears?
From my mom: "I want to come and help after the baby is born, and I don't care that I have to sleep on an air mattress, on the floor, without A/C."
From my husband, while looking at me naked: "Now I understand why so many cultures' goddess figures were pregnant women" -- hot!
From my friend: "I think it's terrible how american culture wants to leave women to mother alone and without any support, and makes women feel bad for wanting to talk about their kids and share their stories, and for needing help." -- only amazing to hear because she is my most supportive friend even though she has no kids yet herself, so I know she "walks the talk" about supporting mothers.
From my dad, who I worried would be judgey about our unplanned, out-of-wedlock conception, and who would be jaded about his 17th grandchild: A big smile, LOTS of excitement and interest in our new family, and seeing him go for a walk with my partner smiling and getting along without judging our sinful lives :).