But he usually doesn't wear it and never does consistently. I've begged and pleaded that he make an effort to wear it. I even ask if he feels more rested to try and convince him it really helps. He doesn't care or maybe doesn't notice either way. I think he looks at it like a problem that I have, not him. It's put a big strain on our relationship for many years (we've been together a long time).
We co-sleep with a 3yo who is sleeping great through the night and I'm really considering moving her out of our room. Thing is-- I like sleeping with her! I'd rather not sleep alone with DH right now. Sad but true. If he doesn't wear the mask he just snores and wakes me up, kicks, shakes and many other annoying behaviors. I'm almost 30wks along with our second child and am at the end of my rope.
I'm debating asking him to sleep in another room for the duration of my pregnancy. I know once this new babe is born, he won't want to sleep in the same room with us I'm sure. Though I hope he will help me with nighttime parenting, he really doesn't and can't mostly because he passes out asleep before everyone else. I'm not happy about it. But there are worse things. He's a very dedicated father and husband.
We have a twin next to our queen and a twin in the 2nd bedroom that doubles as an office for me. I've also considered sleeping in the 2nd bedroom with DD but there is no AC and its in the 90s. I figure DH can deal with it. I'm pregnant and he chooses not to treat his apnea.