I want them to not be dawn in only to girly stuff. I don't want to be too big of a force in keeping them from it, but OTOH I don't think not doing anything is neutral as there are huge marketing forces at work pushing them to pink.
So I do gently encourage them to broaden their range of choices or views, and consider t-ball rather than assume ballet, or to choose trombone rather than going with flute like all the other girls.
I don't expect them to have nothing pink or do nothing girly, but I feel like if I don't encourage a bit larger view, they will be pushed by marketing toward all girly choices.
What are your views on this? (Like I said, replace blue/boyish/boys if you have boys.)