What I took from all your advice that I read over and over, was that adoption isn't an easy answer (it was naive to think that was an alternative, you are amazing Mamablue!), I have to believe, chilling out and letting go is probably the way to go. I want to have a story like wengrin's friend where I let go and it happens! So, I'm going to give it a go.
AF landed today, so I'm blaming yesterday's blues on PMS. The good news is that the clock is reset for a new month. I'm going to put away the thermometer, give up on Opk, CM and any other tracking. I'm going to let it all go!! I'm focusing on being relaxed and enjoying some playful BD with my loving DH. I've realised that Mother Nature is wise enough without my "help", I can let go and she will still do her stuff without my efforts. So I feel like things are on their way back up again. Thank you, thank you for being there when I was so blue.
So what about you?
Has o happened chuord? I love your unconventional techniques. You are creative and your relationship is strong :-)
Where is everyone else in our mad cycle? Who is our next candidate for the big BFP?! I want to cheer someone on.
Mamablue- are you trying IUI this month or natural? I'm rooting for you.
Wengrin- your hubby is adorable! I love the transition from corporate banker to rock star!! You two look really playful :-)
How is little DS? I love hearing your stories about him.
Wengrin- how are you doing my dear! Thank you or your hugs, much appreciated on a bad day! How are things with you?
You lot are great :-)