Well anything involving charting/withdrawal is out for us. I got preggo this time on like cycle day 24 - clearly thought there was no way I could be fertile. Otherwise it's condoms but honestly we were both spoiled by going without so neither of us is keen on that. I'm not willing to go the hormonal route for two reasons: 1- possibility of affecting milk supply and 2- turning 33 this year, I will soon be at a higher risk for some of the possible associated complications. I'm not willing to get my tubes tied because I'm scared of the thought of an ectopic pregnancy. Luckily we've been talking about this practically since the day of our BFP and DH is willing to get a vasectomy
! We both agreed on two kids and AF came 4 months after DD was born so it feels right for us. When I told him how grateful I was that he's willing to get it done, he said "I'm doing it for selfish reasons, you know!" lol Fine by me!!