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post #41 of 46
I was going to say that it just sounds like you need to invest in a good lube like venus. But i hate the word lube, and I don't know a good synonym for lube, so I haven't posted. Lol. But now I've typed it three times, and it wasn't so bad! Lube. Lube. Lube.
post #42 of 46
We've always used coconut oil but it may be time for something better.

Lube lube lube lube. Haha Kitteh smile.gif
post #43 of 46
Thread Starter 

Tenk it just sounds like you are tired! You have so much going on - I would think a little R and R for yourself would help a lot.  ;)

 

And LOL Kitteh! Love the costume, and you look great! Unfortunately a lot of my weight loss revolves around ongoing food issues for my son...I'll likely loose more, and to be quite honest, I liked my more womanly frame.  This weight is definitely too skinny, and it stinks to know that there is more to go.  Oddly enough I still eat like a trucker.  A paleo trucker, I suppose! 

post #44 of 46
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Originally Posted by Tenk View Post

Hey so with the prolapse, does it hurt to have sex?? I have almost zero desire for DTD greensad.gif I love my DH with my whole heart and feel bad because I never want to do it so at times I just say let's go and I just want him to get it over with. But if he goes fast or if it's more than a few minutes it starts to hurt inside and after I feel like there are little tears or cuts from bring so dry greensad.gif it totally sucks!!! Someone tell me I'm not alone here?!?! I don't recall this from previous babies either 😫
. I have the same issue, no matter how much lube we use, it's still the same. Feels like tugging and little cuts. I just want it over with even though I'm all for it when we start. It also aches afterwards and each time I feel like I'm taking backwards steps prolapse wise.
post #45 of 46
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Originally Posted by CrystalMarie View Post

. I have the same issue, no matter how much lube we use, it's still the same. Feels like tugging and little cuts. I just want it over with even though I'm all for it when we start. It also aches afterwards and each time I feel like I'm taking backwards steps prolapse wise.

I have a throbbing/aching feeling afterwards too now that I think about it greensad.gif anyone seeing aGYN for this problem? I loathe doctors (for illness or well checks not them personally) and haven't been in for any kind of postpartum check up. My neighbors are pediatrician and internal medicine ... To bad it would be SUPER awkward to walk over and be like "so about my vagina" LOL I do feel like the burning or tiny cuts sensation is from lack of personal moisture even though we use lube but the tugging and ache afterwards CANT be normal. Crystal, have you tried preseed? It's for TTC but it has a very soft delicate texture to it and might be worth a try.
post #46 of 46
Thanks for the suggestion of preseed I'm looking into it.

I'm anti doctor as well and I've basically been told to do kegles which isn't really recommended according to some of the research i've done so I'm just waiting it out and hoping it heals on its own eventually, I don't really recommended this route. smile.gif
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