That sounds like a terrible experience, agile :( I would have flipped out...I can't imagine it is mandatory? I would fight that....seems like bullying to me. I'm sorry.
I had 2nd degree tearing with both my births and it was never suggested I have a follow up exam. I did have a pap at 6 weeks after this pregnancy though. I had a home birth with my DD but with my DS was with a midwife and an OB in a hospital.