you know, it's an ongoing problem in this house, with at least two kids with adhd and an adhd father.
DD1 (7 years) is becoming more and more disrespectful and disobedient. I just got extremely aware of it, because one of her friends came for a sleepover, and she was just SHOCKED about the way DD is talking to me. She would say things like: You cannot speak to your MOTHER like that! or You can't say THAT!
And she is not even like a little obedient angel.
I am so sad. And angry. I feel like I cannot reach my little girl anymore. She is saying things like "f*ck you" or "*shole" towards me or her siblings regularly.
I am wondering if it would help to cancel any activities and sleepovers and playdates to make her spend time only with me (and her siblings). Not meant as a punishment, but as a regrouping/back to family thing.
What do you think?