... how are you going to handle that.
this is something that sometimes comes up for me as i think about it.
my dd is not anywhere near there obviously but i wonder how do you support that? if you do.
plus what is more important to you. the age they start or what their experience is.
i recall earlier thinking yikes my 13 year old is NOT going to have sex. NOT at that YOUNG age.
and then i rethought that. for me what's important is that she enjoy the experience and it doesnt matter what the age is.
so i know about the emotional readiness and the precautions.
but what about the not talked about. what about where they do it.
i worry about that. how do you support that.
when my dd is sexually ready what does one do to make sure they have a safe place to do. to me it seems incomplete if you do all the safety talk and yet the rest does not happen.
in my defense i grew up in a very conservative society in asia.
so i might be asking something that might be common sense.