I'm sorry, I hope I'm not taking this thread too far off topic.
When you say safe, what do you meant? Safe, how? In contrast, what is unsafe? (I hope my tone sounds sincere. I don't know how to phrase these questions so that it's entirely clear I'm not challenging you!)
I really don't think I need to support or worry about where my kid is having sex. It would feel weird, not very parental, to actively make it easier to have sex. Honestly, I kinda think they should have to sneak around just like dh and I had to. Have sex in cars. Sneak in the parents' house when they're not there. But we were both 18 and in college by then. We breathed a huge sigh of relief when dh got an apartment.
ok in my defense, i come from a different planet. i did not grow up here. all my knowledge comes from hollywood movies and thus i worry. but reading from you all it seems like i dont really need to worry. i dont mind cars and parents homes. :)