yeah we kinda had to tell people because i was extremely sick and showing almost immediately. no way to hide that.... we have told the kids as well, the youngest had figured it out and was offended that i wasn't being honest with him. They are extremely excited though i have made sure they know that babies can die when mommy is still pregnant. tough talk but i wanted them to be prepared.
i have an appt on thursday, first appt with the ob i chose...i am finding my anxiety increasing intensely every day. i am so afraid i will go in there and they won't be able to find a heart beat because the baby has passed. it is totally freaking me out!