So, my daughter is 4 and 36lb 39 inches and is FF, Newborn is on the way. We drive a volvo station wagon with no latch system, and I cannot for the life of me figure out who goes where in the car. Common sense says to me that the nb goes in the middle so he has the most protection, since DD has more solid bones and such, but since she is FF, is she less safe (even with the bones?)
And about that forward facing, she has been ff for a while now, I just realized she COULD still rear face, for like, 5 more lb and maybe an inch (which actually, she might have grown yesterday- like a bean sprout that one is!) Should we go through the battle of turning her around for a couple months?
Can we install the car seats next to each other (they fit)? Or do we do them both on the outside (then no one is safe?)
BTW, I fricken hate cars.