For reference, DD will be 3 in December and is no longer breastfeeding. She has pretty much always slept in our bed. We tried briefly when she was an infant to get her to sleep in her own bed, and were unsuccessful, so we just kept her with us. She sleeps through the night pretty much every night. But we have a couple problems.
1. Even though she sleeps through the night, she moves all over the place and DH and I are woken up several times a night by her movement. - We are both just tired and feeling like we need our space.
2. We are not good at bedtime AT ALL (or nap time) She absolutely does not go to sleep on her own, but will happily go to bed with us when she knows that we are all going to bed. So this has resulted in her no longer taking naps, and then she stays up until we go to bed at 10 or so. (we get to sleep in mornings, so I think she is getting enough sleep)
We can get her to sleep and then move her to a toddler bed in our room, but I am hoping to get her to go to sleep in the toddler bed, bonus points if I can get her to go to sleep in the toddler bed at least an hour earlier than us :) If I can't get her in the toddler bed, I would at least like to get her to go to sleep in our bed an hour earlier than us.
I just don't even know where to start!
Thanks for any help you can give!