2 weeks ago we were asked to bring the younger kids back from their brothers to their house, a three hour drive. We only did it bc our son wanted to visit with them. Now the bio mom wants our son to babysit younger sibs. She lives an hour away and wanted us to drive him down there, drop him off and pick him up again 2 days later. We said no, but that she could bring them to our house. So she is! For not 2, but FOUR days. Didn't even ask us, just told our son she was dropping them off Sunday and getting them Wednesday. We didnt make a big deal bc it's our sons siblings, they need to see each other.
But I am just ready for a break from this bio family. I know she will come here, even though I don't want here at my house, and do everything in her power to make me jealous. She always does, tries to show how she is his mom, not me. So she will refer to herself as mom 50 times in a five min conversation, make him kiss her on the lips bc "that's how you kiss your mommy", take 20 min to say goodbye, etc. I'm done. I'm over it. I didn't want her at my house bc I want it to be a place that's just us, if that makes sense. I just don't want her here. I need a breather.