Is it a big deal that AIOs take awhile to dry? I read anywhere from 6-8 hours (line drying in sun)~ I would like to have at least 24 so if I'm doing 8 changes a day I wash every 2 days- is that realistic?
Also-is anyone else NOT having a baby shower/blessingway? I'm really depressed about this. as I said before all my "friends" have fallen off the face of the earth (or it's just summer and I have a bunch of childless self-centered friends) and I'm 31 weeks with no sign or warning of any baby shower/blessingway celebration happening at all. I really wanted to have a blessingway at the minimum... at 36 weeks or so so I guess there's still time- but I am not going to be the one to organize it - it would be so wonderful if one of my "friends" would take the initiative to be a friend and do that for me... but I'm not going to ask. My mom threw a little baby shower for me when I was FOUR MONTHS with her friends just because she really wanted to throw me one and it was her only chance- she lives in florida- so that was super sweet. At bare minimum we need more cloth diapers and all the birth supplies/postpartum stuff for me- it would be really nice to have a baby shower where everyone brings a cloth diaper- then we'd be set.