I am trying to come up with a plan for my daughter(18), who is in college full time, but living at home, and has no job. I would like to know what others in this position have expected from their children. We are butting heads here over lots of things involving housework, going out and money. How much housework would you expect? Weekly, daily? She is soooo smart and graduated high school with 3.97 gpa but is extremely lazy when it comes to home. I am a weak person and feel lots of guilt that I put too much on my kids, and that has bitten me in the butt. What about going out with boyfriend/friends, without doing anything to help out at home?
She always makes it sound like other parents don't require their kids to get jobs or do housework and gives them money for gas and phones and stuff. I don't know other parents of teens these days. The ones I do know does give their daughter money and don't make her work.