I'm just wondering how other people feel about this.
I have a 3 year old daughter who is just as much into superheros and dirt as princesses and playing house. I am 100% cool with that. She is close enough to her older brother's size that she asks for his hand-me-downs and I let her have them. I have no issues with her going around in a SpiderMan shirt if she chooses. The next day she might have a dress on.
Recently, I chopped off most of my hair. It was down to the middle of my back at least. Now, it's about to my chin in the front, and it's maybe an inch in the back (one of those reverse bobs, I don't really know how to explain it). And her brother has traditional super short hair. She adores her brother and wants to be just like him. SO, she wants to cut all her hair off. And personally, I'm fine with that. BUT 1) I'm scared she is going to hate it and freak out if we do it. 2) Little kids are mean, she's tough but I don't know how she will feel about herself, at three, if someone teases her for her hair. Since it's a lot more permanent that what shirt she wears for the day, I have my concerns just about her feelings. I know in one way, she'd love it. She hasn't had a hair cut ever (except for split ends) and it's probably midway down her back. She hates it in her face, but won't keep it in a ponytail or headband.
Anyone let their little girl cut off a lot of her hair? Did they have any issues with the other kids? Did they care?