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post #1101 of 3384
My boss just asked me to work tonight. Seriously, woman. Gr. And I know I'm going to because I'm a softy. FML

Amanda, IDK how vindictive you are in real life, but I personally would keep both vehicles if I financially could. On the other hand, I've never gone through a D so IDK how much easier it is when both parties are cooperative.
post #1102 of 3384
I think Amanda mentioned that her AH was making slightly less than her, but with no benefits..
post #1103 of 3384
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by Abraisme View Post

I think Amanda mentioned that her AH was making slightly less than her, but with no benefits..

Oh, I thought he wasn't really doing anything!  If that is the case then compromise may be in order... transferring of the title or something, but he should make the payments from then on.  But I still think a vehicle swap is going to bite you in the a$$ frequently.

 

Nicole, seriously?  Get some rest, girl!!  Any more plug/bleeding?

post #1104 of 3384
His business is doing ok. Abra is right about the amount. He likes to hoard the business money, though, and only transfer it when absolutely necessary. My take home is less because I pay for tons of stuff right out of my check (benefits, taxes, child care, 401k, etc). I'm not in the business of screwing anyone over. But I'm also not going to give a car with a loan in my name to someone who might not make the payments.

It's very confusing.
post #1105 of 3384
Same dilemma, though. I am as in love with my car as you can be with an inanimate object. So sad... I'm sure I'll figure it out.
post #1106 of 3384
Is there a way you can have him buy the car from you?.. Or buy him a cheap car that works well enough for now?
post #1107 of 3384
I don't hike. I have 2 under 2. We hiked a mile in and then I had to carry them both the mile out.

Camping rocks. We keep a tote for the kitchen and tent and bedding. The tent takes 15 minutes to set up if an adult helps. My children are big and useful. They could make and break camp with few difficulties. We hang out outside and sleep like we mean it. Who cares if its on a ground pad?
post #1108 of 3384
I know I shouldn't. It's the overnight shift, midnight to 8a. I wouldn't be able to sleep until Conner did, around 9p, so I'd get two hours... Maybe. Then I have to be back at work at 6p tomorrow. Blah.

Amanda, you're smart. You'll figure something out. I'm an avid Judge Judy watcher though, so if you do give him the car that still has the loan on it, PUT IT IN HIS NAME.
post #1109 of 3384
Sara, when you go, don't forget to eat.
post #1110 of 3384
Oh, and no more action down there. I've had tons of BH today though. I've pooped three times and I have a general blah feeling.
post #1111 of 3384
That's not much sleep, Nicole. And in the air conditioning, I would love a pizza.the whole pizza
post #1112 of 3384
Nicole, don't work. That's insane. You need to rest- you will literally be having a baby ANY DAY.

Sara, get the whole pizza. Eat the whole pizza.


Lets talk about cake...haha. Tomorrow I'm making that infamous Kit Kat cake that's been all over Facebook and Pinterest. Brownie bottom, ice cream layer, kit Kat outside, topped with mini M&M's. it's practically diabetes.
post #1113 of 3384
Ash, I won't be able to use my hands tomorrow if I eat a pizza. I need to find a gluten grew crust recipe.
post #1114 of 3384

Ash... I had a red velvet cupcake ... yum!

 

I have seen that kitkat cake ... I have also seen lots of fails ... Good luck!  Should be fun!

 

Having Tacos for supper (except Eli, he is having left over roast beef dinner from last night)... was wanting something that didn't require too much cooking ... ;)

post #1115 of 3384
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Ash, I won't be able to use my hands tomorrow if I eat a pizza. I need to find a gluten grew crust recipe.

Dominos has gluten free pizza. Don't cop-out. Hahaha.
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Thread Starter 

We've got a couple pizza joints with GF crusts.... Dominos, I think?

 

Nicole, I'm going to repeat for emphasis... don't take the shift.  No, no, no.  Think of it this way: one shift tonight, you make your boss happy or one shift tonight, you might compromise your ability to birth they way you'd like.

post #1117 of 3384
That sounds divine. Also, the cake sounds dreamy.
post #1118 of 3384
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Originally Posted by Jaimee View Post

Nicole, I'm going to repeat for emphasis... don't take the shift.  No, no, no.  Think of it this way: one shift tonight, you make your boss happy or one shift tonight, you might compromise your ability to birth they way you'd like.

The lady has a point.
post #1119 of 3384

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Originally Posted by Jaimee View Post
 

We've got a couple pizza joints with GF crusts.... Dominos, I think?

 

Nicole, I'm going to repeat for emphasis... don't take the shift.  No, no, no.  Think of it this way: one shift tonight, you make your boss happy or one shift tonight, you might compromise your ability to birth they way you'd like.

 

 

:yeah

post #1120 of 3384
This is how much of a sweets failure I am: Ash, your cake description made me shudder. Lol!

Oh, just an FYI- the generous sex offer from last night still stands. As do hugs, whether I want them or not. Yay!
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