I'm rather new to the Bay Area (about six months), and I'm having trouble finding a midwife. I've met with several, but I've found them all rather difficult to work with. Some won't meet with me because I can't meet during the work day (I work M-F, 8 to 4), others are frustrated that I can't make a snap decision on whether to go with them or not (I'm only 8 weeks along, for goodness' sake), and still others won't work with me because I'll be moving in the middle of my pregnancy and cannot yet 100% confirm whether I'll be staying in the Oakland/Berkeley area or going across the bay to SF. (Oh, yes, and this is only the ones who have responded to calls/emails - out of all the midwives I've contacted, only about a third have bothered to respond).
It's really frustrating to be new to the area and to feel so roundly rejected during what should be a really exciting time. Any recommendations or help would be greatly appreciated!