Someone has a natural hospital birth, homebirth, vbac, eetc and maybe the birth happened fast or they needed some pit or got an epi, or the cord got cut before they wanted, and they are feeling bad about the birth and see it as traumatic when you tried to do everything right and the universe picked you to be the receipient of a traumtic labor amd then a crash csection.
I'm still having negative feelings over my failed vbac and I having a hard time feeling bad for someone because their labor went to fast or they brokedown and got pain relief. Instead I get jealous. I hate feeling that way.
I would of took pit, an epi, only ate ice chips if it meant not having to get cut again. I'm sure its grass/greener thinking on my part.