I promise I am not trying to start and arguments, only looking for input. My kids are 2.5 years and 4 months. We are/are planning on unschooling. Right now we are in the process of really looking at how we interact with our children and looking at what boundaries are necessary and what we do and do not want to impose unnecessarily. ie.: instead of having set chores that they will do in the future we discussed asking them to help us with certain chores. Now I am kind a sorta but not really an AP parent. Or I guess I should say I would like to be. My 2.5 year old only nursed 4 months and then was FF, she co-slept on occasion but also had her own room at around 6 months I think. Little DD has a few special needs that she will grow out of by 2 years old. She is not mentally or physically handicapped but may be delayed in some things and has a feeding tube and tracheostomy tube. These obviously keep her from being breastfed or co-sleeping but I am able to occasionally wear her. We are also Christian. We go to a non-denominational church. We would like to raise our children as Christians as we believe it is the 1 true religion (again, I am not looking to start any fights).
I guess my questions is/I am looking for input on how to blend these all together. How do you in corporate your beliefs, religious or otherwise into unschooling? How does attachment parenting blend with unschooling? Any advice, opinions, etc.?