ok so hubby has said before he has told her its only him and I in the labor room. Well, the reason i want this is because its his first (my second)and our rainbow. we lost our daughter last yr in april she was due the 16 of sept 12. so this is a very special baby for us since im due the same mo and may have him tomorrow(she was born at 18wk on friday the 13) well she flys in tomorrow witch we HAD to buy her a plane ticket because she had to be here for the birth of his first son(child).
well on the phone just now she says "the babys waiting for me to get there and with my luck kevin will be on a flight(military) and i can be in the room with you" my mistake by saying o my hospital allows 3 ppl in the labor room. her" oo yay i can still be in the room". i said nicely well we were hoping you would watch katie(8yr old) since we dont have anyone to watch her and it be just us in the room(me and hubby) she then gos on to say OOOOO NO honey its his first child i WILL be in the room!katie can wait in the waiting area! (first shes 8 ummm no! second SHE 8 NO!). i just stayed quiet, she then said well ok well see what happens happens if im in the room or not... im hoping hes comes tonight or tomorrow before she gets here(she flys in around 7pm) im 4cm and got my membranes stripped yesterday. and doc said any sign come in( esp since i had 6hr of 4-7min contractions and didnt go in and the stopped.)
so if i dont have my son before she gets here, is there anyway to nicely have this conversation with her about her NOT being in the labor room. its just a very special peaceful time for us and just want us there and its not new i was the same with my ex husband and now 8yr old. plus i will be going natural again and i dont want or need the distraction.