There are mommy and baby groups-- one is at a birth resource center and it's sliding scale $10-20 for an hour and a half... facilitated. The other one is the same deal at a "family friendly" yoga center. I've been to both- the first one no one else showed up and the door was locked, the second one there were 5 other women but I didn't connect with any of them (and they were all about to be due and I was only 28 weeks). I think after baby is born it will be easier to find groups- because it seems lke most of the groups are for moms with little babies- playgroups, breastfeeding circles, and I'm definitely joining the baby bootcamp so i'll meet people there. Definitely a super depressing day today. I spend every day completely alone until my husband comes home. no one calls or texts or ANYTHING anymore. I went out and ran errands, but I was alone.
I'm also really upset that we still don't have everything we need for the baby. My husbands sister sent the hand me down clothes that she was supposed to send like a month ago. Before I left the house I organized all of the clothes by size and put them in piles in the guest bedroom, clearly marked. There were clothes that were brand new and given to us by his family/friends ... and today we finally get the box in the mail of what is supposed to be all the clothes up to 6 months- and it's just a total jumble of every size from 0-12, NONE of the new stuff we got as gifts, it REEKS of fabric softener/detergent with fragrance, and there are maybe 6 newborn onesies, and half of them are stained. I don't want to seem ungrateful because we really need the help- but I'm SO PISSED my SIL messed everything up. She's really messy and apparently threw a bunch of her sh*t on top of the clothes that I had organized, and this is what happens. ugh. I guess we're just going to put everything on credit cards we need for the baby and go more and more and more into debt. I don't have a freaking diaper pail.