my husband doesn't do that.... because he's a former alcoholic and we both don't drink. but.... he was offering me weed constantly up until I finally just snapped at him to quit it - now he's trying to quit weed too because I will NOT have any type of smoke around my baby.
speaking of labor prep-I made a video of what I've done so far. It's not much. I just have a bunch of stuff and we don't have a nursery, just a cosleeper in the bedroom: