My DD turned nine last week..and for her birthday she decided she wanted a sleepover. Dd decided on two girls she wanted to invite...and we planned the party. Dd is in a class where all the kids are fairly close friends..and have all been in the same class together going on three years.
Dd and two birthday friends talked about the sleepover at school..and another close friend (I will call her friend 3)..assumed she was also invited to the party.
A little background on friend 3 and Dd. They have a very love hate relationship. I am friends with friend 3's mom..so we have gotten the girls together a lot. This hasn't always been easy for Dd because she doesn't enjoy playing with friend 3 most of the time..but will tolerate it. While Friend 3 would never be Dd's first choice for a play date..Dd is always very nice to her. But friend 3 and mom seem to think they are a lot closer then they are.
So..day before the birthday party friend 3's mom texted me to see if Dd's birthday party was the next day. I told her it was..but that we were having a small party and that dd had only invited two girls to the party. She texted right back and specifically asked if friend 3 was invited. I told her very gently that no, she wasn't and I'm sorry if friend 3 had hurt feelings. And that I would talk to Dd about talking about birthday parties around friends that aren't invited.
I never did hear back from her. What do I do from here?
Edited by monamcmona - 9/16/13 at 8:54am