In fact, I am most likely birthing @ a hospital this time but only because they have a 20% section rate (appx) vs. the 40+% that is common & average where I used to live (and where I did choose a HB).
But none of it is about my experience, in fact it is about my safety, my health future & the integrity of a major organ which I know I will be better off keeping (hysterotomy can often lead to later Hysterctomy) & keeping intact. We would never question men for being interested in their bodily integity & avoiding surgery if @ all possible, if they were the ones giving birth.
I believe we can have both healthy mothers & healthy babies with evidence based care, but sloppy OBs all over the US will throw a mother's body under the bus for that healthy baby. And in many situations it makes sense for a mother to want to shield herself from that type of care, when it is all her local hospital is willing/able to offer.