and congratulations on your pregnancy! Head on over to our Homebirth forums; you're not the only mama who has wanted a homebirth and had a partner who wasn't sure and the mamas there have experience, knowledge, and great resources to share. In addition, you might enjoy joining a due date club to meet other women who are due the same month as you and the I'm Pregnant forum. Of course, there are interesting discussions in all the forums, so look around and read and post where are you are most interested. Again, welcome!
Do be careful with your hubby. This is his child too. You don't want to marginalize his role as dad from the get-go. Find out the basis of his fears and see if those can be addressed while still birthing at home. If not, a birthing center or hospital might be the better option for your new family. Good luck!