I am due with our 4th child in December, and my biggest hope is that before this baby is born, I could have my 6 1/2 yo DD not having daytime accidents! (She never wets at night...her 8 1/2 yo brother does that). We have ruled out a UTI and have been giving her magnesium (though not as regularly as we should) in case this is related to constipation. It has been going on for at least a year (probably 18 months) and I don't believe it is for attention. She seems embarrassed if it happens at a friend's house. However at home sometimes I will find she is in somewhat wet undies, not caring. When I see her showing signs of needing to go, she says she doesn't need to go...and then a few minutes later I tell her she *needs* to go use the bathroom, upon which she goes. But other times, if I don't catch this (we homeschool and life is nutty..she has a 3.3 yo sister who *also* has her share of wet pants, even though when we are out and about she normally tells me, and she I believe has an awareness but just doesn't want to go use the potty), she ends up fully wetting her pants and undies. Can I just say, I am so tired of pee in this house? Up to this point I have resisted "rewards" for going to the potty, but I am at my wits end. I strive to follow a more unconditional parenting approach here but must say I am worn out at the moment and have been threatening and punishing for so many things...yuck. Anyway I am hoping you ladies might be able to suggest some things that could get my girls using the potty so that this baby doesn't end up potty trained before they are. I need to be dealing with less pee in this house, please!