I have never been very good at limiting my 3yo's nursing. Even night time - I had no supportive partner so I never even tried. I would be so tired I'd just give in and I was worried about being inconsistent. She nursed through my second pregnancy minus the 2 days I was in the hospital. Now DS is almost 9month and it's getting... aggravating.
She wakes up 1-3x a night wanting to nurse (water, food, nothing else... just wants that comfort). Their dad is back in the picture and insisting that she needs to wean... but offering no support. Her latch is HORRIBLE. I can't get her to latch correctly for the life of me - it feels like she is scraping her teeth down my nipple. But all of that said... I don't want to stop nursing her! The night time has GOT to stop simply because coupled with the latch, it's getting to the point where I could just scream.
I guess I'm looking for advice about the latch, about weaning pre schoolers if that's the route I commit to, and/or general support.