I am 41.
I realize that the rate of birth effects, especially Downs, really skyrockets after 40.
We have two boys -- in less than a month they will 6 and 8 -- how THAT happened i am not really sure.
Dh and are currently CTA -- but i am really thinking about TTC
thoughts on TTC after 40.
i have a few dear friends that have birthed after 40 (after 42 in one case) but all of the babies have been surprises -- not planned.
not sure how i feel about TRYING when the rate of birth defects skyrockets so much, but, as you can tell, i am not totally done wither