I'm not feeling attached at all really to this pregnancy/baby so far, is that normal? With my son 11 years ago I felt an instant bond and connection to him as soon as I found out I was pregnant. Maybe it was because that pregnancy was very much wanted and longed for and this one was more of a shock and a bad time to be pregnant in my life.
When I heard the heart beat last week it made me happy to hear it was okay and I do feel glad to be pregnant now I'm past the shock of it all, but I just don't feel that bond yet at all. I'm wondering if it's because I have concerns about miscarriage and know the rate is high until you reach 12 weeks, so maybe I am detaching myself until that point in case it happens.
There is nothing to feel or see yet, I'm assuming once I can feel the baby move and my stomach gets the baby bump shape I will feel more attached then.
How is everyone else feeling about this?