Well the title says it all.
I have until April. The biggest problem is that he just shuts down. Also, he doesn't "believe" anything on the internet and any attempts to talk facts and reason are met with resistance. We are dealing with a classic case of denial and it is deep-seated. He is quite fixated on looks and being made fun of.
It may be a lost cause but I will try to do what I can. My heart just aches at the thought of his son going through this.
I guess I am looking for anything I may not have thought of. I have mused on the idea of offering him a large stack of cash.
I am trying to work on SIL, who claims she is open to not circumcising (I am not 100% convinced of this but I'm trying to stay positive). However, she is a "keep your man happy at all costs" kind of a person so it is a challenge. She also is very touchy about any conversation that she views as unsolicited advice or that she views as being too nosey.
Both she and my brother are also squeamish about sex-related talk. So, yeah, textbook cases of the non-enlightened. I start to wonder how we come from the same parents!
Anyway, all this makes for an uphill battle.