I'm Kathy, from eastern NY State, and have a 45-month-old daughter who is resisting all potty training attempts. I joined the group primarily for support, as well as maybe to get soem constructive advice.
My family has a little toy that is passed around in our family to potty train. It is a little m&m sitting on the toilet. Every time we would make an attempt we could flush the little m&ms potty and m&ms would come out of the side. We were always excited to go so we could be rewarded with the m&ms. The make other toys like that. I hope that helps! Good luck.