Hello everyone how is everything going this weekend ? So i am a recent got divorce from close of 15 years of marriage.I have a 12 year old daughter that is taken it very hard and she does not understand .So she blames for not trying to fix things were her dad and i told her we have try and try but i told her it will not work.I told her that we will also be friends and do what is best for our daughter so she was like well mommy that is not good enough .My daughter is very sad that her dad will not be here for thanksgiving
So during a counseling session for the 3 of us my ex agree with my daughter and me that he will be at my house to spend Christmas together and also to have dinner.I am surprise my ex has a new girlfriend that is 12 years younger than i am and she agree with my ex that he can come over .So my daughter was like to me that this is good mommy that you and daddy can talk to try to work things out .So i try to explain to her that Daddy has a new girlfriend and she was like mommy do not even go there so i was like excuse me young lady change the tone in your voice ..She also wants me also to kiss her dad at the door when he comes for christmas just like i did when i greeting him when he came home from work
So it seems the past few weeks my daughter has been testing me with a few things .The first thing is every morning i have a fight with her about what she has on for school.She came down stairs with a short skirt and a red top that her friend loan her.So i was like young lady go up and change right now .So she was like mom why and i was like your 12 and your not going to dress like 16 .So she was like mommy please about 6 times and i was like no .So of course she walks away and starts to cry and i had to grounded her for a week because she did not say not nice things about me.
The other thing is my daughter wants to have her hair like Rihanna and i am not going to allow it she has beautiful beautiful blond hair and i am not going to have her change her hair.So of course when i told her no she of course calls her dad and her dad calls me .So he was like let our daughter get the hair style that she wants please so we do not have to hear about it .I told my ex no sorry i know my daughter likes her music but personally i do not care for her at all ,
The other thing is my ex wants my daughter to come live with him and sorry that is also not going to happen.So far this divorce has not gone that bad fighting wise but it is like that he is also trying to test me.
My daughter is a great kid she is smart does great in school and has lot of friends.I do a lot of things with her with i am either not working or everything else.So i would apprecited anyone can give me advice on what to do it would be a great help .Take care and to all the moms out there have a Happy and safe thanksgiving .If anyone of you have any family members that are serving this country here or over seas thank them for there great service