Hello ladies i was wondering if someone can help me out with my problem.I am a married happy mom of a great child who wants to be a girl so bad..My son came out to me and his dad and my whole family that he wants to be a girl 6 months ago and with lots of counselling and still a lot he has been living as a girl every since .It has been very hard for my husband because he thinks it is something that he did and i keep telling him no.We had to put him into another school because my child was getting bullied so bad in school so far this school year she has not had any problems .My chlld gets very upset if we do not call him by his female name .She is also a straight A student and she has made a number of nice girls in her class as friends
It has also been hard for me because this coming friday night he wants to have a girls night out just the 2 of us for dinner and shopping .My parents are also very upset and angry and my mom thinks this is all of my fault and also my dad is taken this so hard.I told my parents this is not my fault and this is what my child wants .
My daughter has also inform me today that she wants me to start looking into Ballet because that is what she really wants to do .I have had some disagreements about the way that she dresses for school just like any teenager girl.I also agree but my husband did not like it but i allow for her to get a female style hairstyle .So after i took her to have her hair done i was like just wow she really wants to do this..I have also have giving her lessons on putting on nylons/tights the correct way
She also told me that she has a number of goals in life and the first is to have the surgery the second to be a bridesmaid in a wedding and number 3 to get married to the man of her dreams in a wedding gown and close to 100 friends and family that would be so many years down the road .
I feel this is starting to her my marriage but my husband keeps telling me believe me honey we are fine .The only thing is my husband thinks this is a Faze that my child is going to threw but i very much doubt it .
So i would appreciated any advice anyone can give me.I have been on the fence but should i go out with my daughter to have a nice girls nights out she has been asking for a long time .Take care and have a happy thanksgiving to everyone out there