We have 3 kids, the oldest is 6 and in 1st grade. He has no issues whatsoever. Our youngest is 2 and she's a treat. Our middle son, however, is having more and more issues at Kindergarten. He was having behavior issues before. He has settled in and been doing MUCH better. Now, however, he is starting to wet his pants regularly and occasionally poop his pants as well. We are fine with the occasional accident (it happens), but he went from the beginning of school in Sept. to the second half of Nov with 2 wetting accidents. The last month there have been good weeks with no accidents and others where my wife is called to the school daily to bring a change of clothes. Recently he even pooped his pants. We are not sure what to do. We discipline all the kids equally, no problem. He doesn't have any accidents at home. When my wife went to change him today after another accident she asked him why he doesn't go to the bathroom, there is one in the classroom and the teacher doesn't stop any child from going when they have to. His reply? "I was busy", really? We need to get this under control. Any help/advice would be GREATLY appreciated. We have tried being strict, we have tried rewards/bribes, we have taken him to see specialists (including a urologist). I have no idea what else to do.
I know it's rare to find a Dad on here, but hey, we have GOT to find a solution. We can't keep sending him with a change of clothes or have my wife go to change him everyday.