That's crazy! I don't try to schedule John. Funny enough, he is pretty laid back and just goes with the flow. He will go to bed whenever I want most of the time, but sometimes he likes to go earlier.
On a sort of separate note, why do some people think it is ok to give their opinion? I always say something when that happens. Coworkers, family, friends, anyone really...I have said "this is MY baby, I am a good mother, and just because I do things differently than you think I should, does not give you the right to give your advice without me asking for it." It causes issues sometimes, but it is one of my biggest annoyances. I always hear unwanted comments about cosleeping, baby wearing (they say I'll spoil him...ugh), extended breastfeeding plans...just everything really! Anyway, soap box rant over!!!