So sorry to hear all that! That's rough
When I get really frustrated that I can't "get more done" around the house and everything, I *try* to focus on the fact that I am creating another human being and try to tell nyself to let the other stuff go bc this is kinda the greatest thing I could be doing so I'm accomplishing a lot by just laying down and resting! Lol. YKWIM? But the key word is try bc I have to constantly remind myself.
I too feel bad off and on about myself physically bc I started this pregnancy overweight. I was already 30+ lbs heavier than the start of dds pregnancy. It's hard and even harder that I get really fat in my face so it's not like I can hide it. But again, I try to stay positive and think about how it's all worth it for the precious little one who I'd gain 200lbs for!
I'm actually having a low sex-drive and that is unusual for me and I'm really hating it
Dh is super understanding but I've always had a higher sex drive than him and now I'm all upset that I can't even enjoy the times that he wants to. I think I'll get into it but everytime I'm just not able to. Rrrrrr.
Oh another complaint note: so-to-speak, dh lost his job!!!
dh's boss told him that he couldn't pay him anymore, and it's a complicated situation but basically boss is a decent guy but he sux when it comes to being a business man. And he just dropped this on my dh out of nowhere. Dh works in the alternative health and wellness industry, and so he still has some clients but just lost a huge chunk of his paycheck and has to start all over so to speak. We moved to this partnof the country for this job and lost a LOT of money in the process so its just really irritating.
Then, a few days before Christmas, someone broke into dh's office and stole his brand new laptop computer and phone and other valuables! He totally depends on them for work so It put us In another hole. I was especially sad bc it had 5 months of our family pics on there which we can never get back.
We were just like, "seriously?!!" But I told my dh Immediately after It happened that I was so glad he wasnt hurt bc ya know ppl shoot ppl over stuff smaller than that or stab them and he was In the office at the time! And again, thankfully It was just stuff that was stolen and not, say, our daughter! God forbid. I think often about the horrific nightmare of parents who have had their kids kidnapped And then our small stuff being stolen isnt really bad, ya know.
Ok, I didn't realize I had that much to write but it has been a challenging month! Lol. Believe it or not I am hopeful for the new year though!