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Hello!

 

I am at 10 DPO, got 3 BFNs so far at 8, 9, 10 DPO, and I promised myself I wouldn't obsess, but now here I am.  I did learn through obsessive research that the most common implantation day is 9 DPO and that the most common first BFP is 13.6 DPO, so I'm trying not to feel bad about those 3 BFNs.  (Even though I have got BFPs at 9 DPO before.) 

 

I am obsessing because I have not spotted like normal (usually I spot brown starting around 8 DPO and continue through to AF.)  This morning, at 10 DPO, I had one tiny bit of pink/red tissue in the toilet, so now I'm obsessing that it was from implantation yesterday.  That and I have had constant dreams of a BFP for three nights running, and my dreams are often right.

 

I suppose I should be marked as testing on 1/20, but who am I kidding; I got 3 more HPTs in the cabinet that I will totally use up before Monday.

post #262 of 495
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How long do you guys wait to urinate after bd? I've always done it right away to avoid utis but since we started trying to conceive I try to wait for at least 10 minutes. Last night (hopefully the day I ovulated) I fell asleep. Just curious if there is a good way to go about it or not.

I was supposed to get X-rays on my lower back and neck today and decided to hold off until I know if this is our month. I won't lie I am trying very hard not to get overexcited right now. smile.gif


If peeing made the sperm fall out and prevented pregnancy, think how happy all the women who don't want to be pregnant would be!  Hahahahaha!  Anyway, you don't have to wait.  I usually go right away.  Semen jellies up right after it comes out of the penis to keep it stuck inside the vagina.

post #263 of 495

Badwolf- I'm sorry to hear about your brother, IMO do what feels right to you.

innacircle- my doctor said I need to take a week off from work, so I'm assuming if I can work I can DTD? I'll have a list of questions to ask him at my pre-op appt so I will def include that one! He said that the majority of women that he has done the lap on get pregnant in about 4-6 weeks, but that some don't. 

 

Can you move me to waiting to be ready? I never thought I'd be in that column, but its obvious that I need this surgery to get pregnant. 

post #264 of 495

Hi ladies! I've been hanging over in Infertility but it looks like I'll bounce between the threads. Just to give you a heads up of what's been going:

 

Went back to the doctor on 1/10 to meet with a different doc. Turns out he doesn't think I have PCOS at all. He says all of my blood work is within normal range and of no concern. He started me on progestrone pills on the 1/10 and today is my last day of them. Hopefully AF will make an appearence and then I start Clomid on cyle day 2 or 3 (can't remember. After that, the waiting begins and I report back to the labs on cycle day 21-22 for testing and then back to see him 3 weeks after that to determine if 1) I'm pregnant or 2) if we need to repeat and increase a cycle of clomid

post #265 of 495
Good luck naturallymo
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Hi ladies! I've been hanging over in Infertility but it looks like I'll bounce between the threads. Just to give you a heads up of what's been going:

Went back to the doctor on 1/10 to meet with a different doc. Turns out he doesn't think I have PCOS at all. He says all of my blood work is within normal range and of no concern. He started me on progestrone pills on the 1/10 and today is my last day of them. Hopefully AF will make an appearence and then I start Clomid on cyle day 2 or 3 (can't remember. After that, the waiting begins and I report back to the labs on cycle day 21-22 for testing and then back to see him 3 weeks after that to determine if 1) I'm pregnant or 2) if we need to repeat and increase a cycle of clomid
Well that sounds promising!!! Baby blessings to you!
AFM please move me to WTO
post #268 of 495
Oh NM I see you did lol
post #269 of 495

TWW. 14DO and no AF... Still hopeful. Probably got O wrong.

 

:)

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TWW. 14DO and no AF... Still hopeful. Probably got O wrong.

smile.gif

You sound very relaxed about it. That is good.

I am not relaxed. Got 4 BFNs so far at 8-11 DPO. AF not due for three more days, though. This is why you shouldn't POAS early.
post #271 of 495
My husband specifically told me not to test until jan 29th so I won't even buy tests until the weekend before lol. It is really hard to wait though.

On a happy note, I've lost 5 lbs in two weeks. Maybe I can get close to my goal weight (only 10 more lbs) and then just focus on staying healthy while pregnant.
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My husband specifically told me not to test until jan 29th so I won't even buy tests until the weekend before lol. It is really hard to wait though.

On a happy note, I've lost 5 lbs in two weeks. Maybe I can get close to my goal weight (only 10 more lbs) and then just focus on staying healthy while pregnant.
Ok I typed out this whole long thing about weight loss and great job, and it posted twice and then I tried to erase one and it erased both lol so I'll redo it later lol
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I haven't tested again since what I think was 10dpo. Small miracle there. Now I'm scared to so am not planning on it. AF due tomorrow or Sun. Today is CD28. I have zero symptoms. I have been more tired than normal. I usually stay up til 11ish, but 3 times this week was asleep by 9. But I've had insomnia and am super stressed at work, so that's probably why. I've been having weird "ovary pains" too. Both sides. But I'm sure I'm just over analyzing every twinge. I just wish I was pregnant already!!! Ugh!

NaturallyMo: good to hear from you!! Keep us posted. I'm really curious to hear what this new dr has to say and what your tests show! Good luck!
post #276 of 495

I suppose I should update you all.

 

I'm testing tonight! <- What!

AF is 7 days late. We were taking December/January Cycle off trying to relax, not charting, not tracking, just relaxing before trying. We happened to BD on January 1st, which happened to be 1DPO not on purpose and now AF is MIA. ('m really regular)  DH is convinced we're pregnant. I'm waiting to see that BFP! (hopefully)!

post #277 of 495
Good luck! smile.gif
post #278 of 495
Good luck crystal!!! Keep us updated... As for me I'm on cycle day 74 and just waiting to go to doc feb 17 hoping to get answers and get this cycle over with lol
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My husband specifically told me not to test until jan 29th so I won't even buy tests until the weekend before lol. It is really hard to wait though.

On a happy note, I've lost 5 lbs in two weeks. Maybe I can get close to my goal weight (only 10 more lbs) and then just focus on staying healthy while pregnant.
Ok now what I was trying to type earlier lol..... Great job on loosing some weight before conception! Before my first I was 10 lbs above my ideal weight when I got pregnant. I gained 40 lbs and lost 30 of it right away. The next 3 years I yo-yoed back and forth between pre pregnancy weight and post pregnancy weight! Always struggling to loose that last 10 lbs plus the 10 I needed to loose before I was pregnant! With my second baby I gained 35 and lost it all but I still am always trying to loose that 10-20:/ anyway I found that if you stay at the normal weight gain of 25-35 it falls right off especially if you breast feed! So way to a great start!
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Ok now what I was trying to type earlier lol..... Great job on loosing some weight before conception! Before my first I was 10 lbs above my ideal weight when I got pregnant. I gained 40 lbs and lost 30 of it right away. The next 3 years I yo-yoed back and forth between pre pregnancy weight and post pregnancy weight! Always struggling to loose that last 10 lbs plus the 10 I needed to loose before I was pregnant! With my second baby I gained 35 and lost it all but I still am always trying to loose that 10-20:/ anyway I found that if you stay at the normal weight gain of 25-35 it falls right off especially if you breast feed! So way to a great start!

Yeah I am about 10 lbs above my ideal. I gained twenty five lbs on medications for anxiety and ibs and so far after getting off of them I've been able to lose 10. I was a little underweight before so I think 10 more would be perfect. My plan is definitely to stay as healthy as possible during pregnancy. I'm only 5'0 though so I worry about putting on a ridiculous amount of weight.
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