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How do babies learn to crawl?

post #1 of 24
Thread Starter 
Okay, my 9 month old son isn't crawling yet. He's not even showing signs that he's interested. He just sits and plays with his toys and will occasionally reach out for a toy that he's batted away but then he just falls over and cries helplessly.

Now, last time I posted about this (when he was 8 months) everyone said not to worry that he will crawl in his own time. I get that. I just want to make sure I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing to facilitate the crawling.

For example... will he go from sitting to crawling or from tummy to a crawl position? Should I be giving him tummy time? Should I be urging him to crawl? Should he be on a boppy pillow?

In other words... from a developmental perspective babies begin to crawl when "what" happens? Fill in the "what."

I just want to make sure I'm not the one delaying his progress and I want to give him experience doing whatever it is babies do right before they crawl.

Thanks!
post #2 of 24
Tummy time... That's when he learns to push himself up on his hands and knees... My DS2 just rocked back and forth forever!!! Then, one day, right after I said to my mother, "I don't know if he'll ever crawl", he took off headed straight for the newspaper!!! :LOL
post #3 of 24
Oh i'm gald i'm not the only one obsesed about when my child will learn to crawl. I get down on the floor and try to show her!!!
post #4 of 24
Definitely tummy time. My boys both did the army crawl first, then moved up to the hands and knees crawl.

But, crawling isn't a necessary developmental stage. Just remember that. Not all kids crawl, and they develop just fine.
post #5 of 24
Thread Starter 
Okay, if he never crawls, and I'm open to that since he never rolled over either (except 3 times in rapid succession when I was trying to prove to hubby that he couldn't roll over...). But then is he going to go to the walking stage? And how will that happen?

I guess my revised question is... how can I get him interested in moving? I mean, when I put him on his tummy he acts like a turtle on his back.
post #6 of 24
Does he not roll over anymore? I ask b/c for a long time before Will tried to crawl, he was rolling all over the place. He would get interested in a toy or something and roll over to it. Then I think that stimulated his interest in crawling - seeing that he could move and get stuff.

Maybe you could show him how to roll toward something that he's interested in?

Just for anecdotal purposes, I never crawled (I mean, obviously, I know how to crawl NOW, but as an infant/toddler I didn't crawl. Mom says I did this funny "humping" (her description) on my back, pushing w/my heels. Then I walked. Now my son rolled like a maniac, then army crawled for a looooong time, and had been "cruising" on the furniture for a while before he learned to crawl "properly".

Oh, and Will hated "tummy time", too - he would roll over as soon as he could. I didn't force it. Instead, I did a lot of holding him upright on my lap. That way, he could see the world, and I think it helped to get him interested in moving around.
post #7 of 24
Does your baby have any baby friends he can watch crawling/walking/rolling? I ask because my 7 month-old started crawling with a vengeance after going to a LLL meeting with me, and intently watching all the older babies crawling and walking... Seems like they inspired him or something. ?
post #8 of 24
Thread Starter 
he doens't have peers, but that's a great idea. Maybe I'll take him to Gymboree or something similar where the babies are hanging out. Thanks for the idea!
post #9 of 24
OOPS! Double Post

Working on getting used to the new format - guess I goofed!

- see below!
post #10 of 24
Is your baby just a mellow, content kid?

Don't stress about it. There are no rules of how a child learns to crawl. My middle child didn't crawl until he was 10 1/2 months old. He could sit up by then and was happy to play with toys sitting up, but didn't care if they went out of his reach. He'd just play with whatever toys were nearby. He didn't roll over often, even though I knew he could b/c it happened once or twice. He was not into tummy time, so I didn't push it. He started crawling by sitting up and then leaning onto his hand and getting up on his knees from there and moving forward (does that make sense?).

From what I've seen with my boys babies learn to walk by first learning to stand by holding onto something - like pulling up to the coffee table. Then they start to cruise - walk around the coffee table holding onto it for stability. Then they start to make short little walks - like coffee table, step, step couch, tah-dah!

I don't think you need to worry about motivating your child to move more if he's not interested. He will when he's ready.
post #11 of 24
my older dd didn't crawl til she was about 10 mo. she was just more concerned with her fine motor development rather than large motor i think. she loved to play with little things with her hands.

i have a friend who's ds2 never crawled but scooted on his bum instead. he could really move fast, too.

i wouldn't stress about it. he'll develop in his own time at his own pace and you might have the benefit of not having to chase him around as much as those early large motor skill developing kids who crawl at 5 mo and walk at 8 mo.

hth
post #12 of 24
HI Erin! Our poor kids heck im currently obsessing that my son who is 6 months doesnt bounce when i hold him. I would give him a lil time however how is he doing with his other milestones? is he NOT consistantly rolling over? Does he reach and play with toys? If crawling alone is the only concern I wouldnt worry. HOwever as a mom we do.. If it does bother you then you may want to ask his DR some questions or maybe get a eval done..I used to be a therapist with children before a SAHM .
post #13 of 24
How much tummy time do you give? My son h a t e s it. He is four months old and he wants to be held by me almost constantly. I don't mind; in fact I like it. I am worried about him being able to develop properly. I'll put him down adn he might stay under the TinyTots gym for twenty minutes but then he screeches for me. As far as tummy time goes, you can forget it! Like with yours, Erin, he acts like a turtle on his back when I put him on his tummy. Even for massage, he won't put up with it for long.

What would be a good goal for him to be on the floor reaching/trying tummy time? five minutes? fifteen? dont wory and just hold him all day?
post #14 of 24
OH About your other question it can vary how they end up actually getting up to crawl ( as they can do it anytime) some do it after they have been on their belly.......they will lift themselves up, others when put in the sitting position ......will reach out and front and get on all fours and others by the time they crawl are able to get into sitting or tummy by themselves and do what they choose.. Does that make sense? Im sure as long as he has freedom on the floor you are doing great.. heck even when you are holding him thats good for him also ( vestibular input..movement)
post #15 of 24
I just wanted to add that I read somewhere (can't remember where) that crawling isn't actually a developmental milestone. Some babies do the 'army crawl', some scoot, some roll...
post #16 of 24
nak
i was talking about this with my mom when ds was a tiny baby. she brought up a good point: what about the american indian tribes in which cradleboards were used? those babies were strapped down like ALL the time against a rigid frame ... but when the time came for each baby to crawl, it learned to crawl. and jean liedloff wrote that yequana moms carried their babies in slings ALL the time, until the babies wanted to crawl, and those babies crawled too.

also i knew a chick once whose daughter was a very roly poly baby, quite round ... and she never crawled, she rolled. the mom said her baby would roll a ways, stop, sit up and reorient her trajectory, roll again and so on.

i personally wouldn't be too concerned about stimulating or motivating or any of that ... it seems to me that the babies have an incredibly powerful internal drive to progress and eventually their time will come ... and you'll wish for the peace you had when they were stationary
post #17 of 24
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Originally Posted by girlndocs
nak
i was talking about this with my mom when ds was a tiny baby. she brought up a good point: what about the american indian tribes in which cradleboards were used? those babies were strapped down like ALL the time against a rigid frame ... but when the time came for each baby to crawl, it learned to crawl. and jean liedloff wrote that yequana moms carried their babies in slings ALL the time, until the babies wanted to crawl, and those babies crawled too.

also i knew a chick once whose daughter was a very roly poly baby, quite round ... and she never crawled, she rolled. the mom said her baby would roll a ways, stop, sit up and reorient her trajectory, roll again and so on.

i personally wouldn't be too concerned about stimulating or motivating or any of that ... it seems to me that the babies have an incredibly powerful internal drive to progress and eventually their time will come ... and you'll wish for the peace you had when they were stationary
i giggled like mad reading the roly poly baby bit.

and thanks for the reassurance.
post #18 of 24
oh wow!! Can u just picture a cute little roly poly bub - rolling around the house. LOL........
post #19 of 24

me and my wife had the same concern with our 8 months old son , 2 -3 weeks after he started crowling with no stop !!

we are glad that he is learning and moving , now he is 9 months and a week old , so from my experience as a father I  would say :

not to worry so much ...........

post #20 of 24
The developmental textbook answer is when they are strong enough and motivated. So putting a single toy just out of reach would be a start.
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