Margo, again thank you! I never had an issue with my pelvic health or urine leakage outside pregnancy and have great skin integrity, no stretchmarks, no tears, super fast pp recoup times and I exercise daily. I was confused by the idea that suddenly I lost pelvic strength- when my fiance interjected my confession with "Well you haven't lost your kung-fu grip on me yet, I would notice if your stuff was broken. It's probably just my baby." I think he's right but it's still annoying :) On another note while writing this I remember the last time I peed my pants was in 2002, I was toting my toddler into Old Navy to buy new pants with a sweatshirt tied around my waist, got through the whole ordeal without embarrassment until, at the register, my daughter says "I can't believe you peed your pants. You should have pee before we left the house, like I did."