I just wanted to ask some advice my gf sister is due in 2 months and i am about to try and persuade them not too cut, but they are the kind of couple you hope just has girls ;( But i cant sit back and not say anything because its a defenseless child and maybe in 15-20 years i can tell him I stood up for him even when his only family wouldnt. I think what makes talking about this so difficult is because you have to argue with the people that should want to protect the child the most. I have told my gf that i dont want this to happen to our child and she for the most part thinks its ok or all the info i tell her is not true. It makes me mad bc i think she will be a great mom but I just have a hard time trusting her opinion now knowing that if she thinks circ is ok, what else is she behind the times on with child care she watches alot of children and is really excited for her sisters child me not so much with this situation. I am not cut but have a short forskin that barely covers the head and she thinks im lying and that I am circed no matter how much i try and tell her im not. I didnt tell her but i have kept my forskin retracted my entire life bc i didnt want to look different and didnt know what girls would think of it. But dont want to tell her that bc that wont help my argument lol. I think she would just not be used to it or could it possibly be that she doesnt want to have a child with an "ugly penis"? and she would feel embarassed around her friends and family. My family never did this because its not done on my dads side and it was done on my moms side of the family buyt my mother is a medical assistant and before we were born she assisted with circs and said it was so horrible that she couldnt allow it to happen to us.
Any way I can bring this up with my gf sister and her husband I am pretty close to them, I just have to say something the child deserves it. I just think he should have the opportunity to know his whole body and be able to enjoy it as i have
In terms of my gf who would give consent. Lets just say we have a child and in the hospital I (the father) say no i dont consent but she wants to will they go with her decision since she is the mother? Of course I hope it wont come to that i hope i can change her mind by then have atleast 2-3 years before getting married or kids or thats the plan lol. but for the sake of argument what would happen here?
I am not sure yet but im sure my gf sister and husband will not want to watch the circ. Just put their head in the sand and wait till its over. My sister is excited for the birth I told her she should go for the circ instead to support the child. Would that ever be possible bc I think if she were to see how awful it is that may change her mind about her own child. And this childs loss wouldnt be in vain possibly some good could come from it.
sorry for being so long winded never posted but use the info on here anytime i hear someone's having a boy