Wemoon...that is so great! Sounds like a wonderful evening! I really hope those problems you think you are "in for" do not spoil your newfound excitement and fun with your new guy. You deserve this...don't let them take that from you!
I had my "date" over last night for dinner, I cooked (roasted chicken, potatoes and a spinach salad, with an incredible strawberry tart for dessert). It went very, very well. A lot of talking, cuddling, kissing and "touching"
, but that was it. I told him, "No worshipping at this temple until you prove your worth!"
He thought that was GREAT!
I am not exactly sure where it will lead, to be honest. We get on great with each, talk almost daily (he always initiate the conversation via MSN or calls me on the phone), we have never had nothing to say to each other, are physically and sexually attracted to each other (last night was evidence of that one!), very open and honest with one another, etc.
BUT, the slower things go, the better it is so for me. This is a first for me, I am normally the one that rushes into the relationship, wants to know immediately where things stand, etc. This time, I don't want to and I shouldn't rush into anything...still some "issues" that should be sorted out beforehand.
I am not exactly sure where he is at with me, I gather from his comments, he is also in no rush. To be honest though, it really doesn't matter where he is at right now...I can truly only focus on myself and ds at this point.