I'm a mom of a 5 year old and a 4 year old and I've been in a relationship with my DP for almost 2 years. We don't currently live together for geographical reasons but spend 3-10 days per month in the same place, often with the kids.
I'm sure that being geographically separated gives our sex drives a bit of a boost, but we've always been pretty active in the bedroom (even when we spent several months in the same city). We're getting married and moving in together this summer. And at some point, we'd like to have another kid or two.
I think every newly married or newly pregnant couple hears the statement "after you have kids, your sex life just won't be the same" But we already have kids, you know?
So I wonder....how has the development of your sex life been in your second (or subsequent) marriages when you already had kids and then had another child together? Meaning if your sex life was active with the 'existing' kids around, how much really changed when you had more children?