My divorce was finalized almost 2 years ago and we've had no contact with the children's father since then (he showed up at court asking for 50/50 then didn't show up for supervised visits, never heard from him again) I had the same number for years and years, recently I changed it because I was getting calls constantly from blocked numbers and I could hear people in the background speaking my ex's native language. I got scared when I heard that and changed my number. I have NO contact information for him.
I went to the court to try to submit a notice that I changed my number- in case they needed to contact me? I don't know, I just thought I would need to keep the court updated on my address and phone number forever. The lady said they cannot accept it unless I had served ex by mail or processor with the same notice. I tried to explain that we don't have an on-going case but she kept saying she can't give legal advice.
I just don't want to get in trouble if he someday contacts the court to start visitations (he hasn't seen children in almost 4 years, so unlikely.. didn't even visit them when he drove half way across country for court)
There is nothing in the divorce or custody decree stating that I need to update info with court so I don't know if it's required or not. Any ideas?