I read a blog post of an unschooler describing their day, and in it she said she asks the kids "what do you want to learn about today?". I was surprised - to be honest, it has never occurred to me to ask that! Heh. I ask what his plans are for today, what he wants to do today, what should we do, etc. I know you need to know your kid(s), but I wonder about feeling pressure to perform? Do you ask your kids straight out like this?
Oh, here's the blog post: