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post #21 of 40
Oh, Stars, the wait is the worst! When will you know?
post #22 of 40
Thread Starter 
I'm supposed to make an appointment on Monday, so hopefully by Tuesday or Wednesday.
post #23 of 40

Oh starsmagick, I'm so sorry to read this. Huge hugs :Hug I'll be thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way.

post #24 of 40
Thread Starter 
I didn't have the heart to post this yesterday, but about 3 am yesterday I started cramping and bleeding heavily. I have officially miscarried. I have the baby's tiny body. My husband and I are going to do a memorial for her.

I'm going to docs tomorrow JUST To Make SURE Everything Is Going how it should.

I'm also thinking of going to build a bear and making an angel bear in baby's memory.
post #25 of 40

Oh, stars, I wish I had the words.  I am devastated for you, and just so very, very sorry.  :Hug

post #26 of 40

I am so sorry Stars.

post #27 of 40

Oh stars, I am so very sorry. My heart breaks for you.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  I think the memorial and angel bear sound like a beautiful way to honor your baby.  

post #28 of 40
Stars, I am so very sorry. I have become a little attached to you already since I saw you as a kindred spirit of sorts with the seizures and fertility struggles. I wish I could give you a hug in real life.
post #29 of 40
Sorry beyond words. I'll be thinking of you.
post #30 of 40

Stars! I'm holding you in my thoughts and praying for peace and healing. I'm so sorry to hear this. Be gentle with yourself and take as much time as you need to be where you are. 

post #31 of 40
Thread Starter 

So I'm going to the doctor's for confirmation.  I'm pretty sure I know the answer, but I need to make sure everything ELSE is okay.  The appointment is at 2:30.  *sighs*

post #32 of 40
Thread Starter 

So, I just got back from the doctors, and she said it's POSSIBLE I didn't loose the baby after all!  When I went to the ER the other night, they said I had subchorionic bleeding which generally resolves itself.  She said it's possible that what happened was the bleed resolving.  They did another level to check the HGC, If the levels have gone up properly, it means things are still going okay.  Please pray for us!

post #33 of 40

Wow, fingers crossed and prayers for you! So hoping!

post #34 of 40

omagosh! I certainly hope this is the beginnings of great news! I will pray up a storm and am thinking all good thoughts for you!

post #35 of 40

Is it ok to ask you if you still have your sweet baby inside your tummy?? 

post #36 of 40
Thread Starter 

I lost the baby.:(  We got comfirmation on Tuesday :( 

post #37 of 40

So very sorry for your loss :(  

post #38 of 40

I am so sorry :( I know the hurt of losing a baby. Take time to grieve and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Take all the time you need ..


post #39 of 40

Oh stars. I'm SO sorry. We had our loss last summer and it is so so hard. Be gentle with yourself and lean on those you need to for however long you need to. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

post #40 of 40
Thread Starter 

Thank you everyone.  I appreciate it.  My husband and I are doing a few things to honor this baby, who we decided to call Angelique Michole.  It's the first names we had chosen - Angelique for a girl, Michole for a boy.  We were both fairly sure it was a girl, but we decided to use both names.  We went to Build - a -Bear and made a soft fuzzy bear that we dressed like an angel and named after the baby.  We both also got memorial necklaces on Etsy; mine just arrived today.  It's 2 silver angel wings, with a bell and a birthstone in the middle.  Reminicent of the quote "Every time a bell rings an angel gets her wings" from It's a Wonderful Life. 

My husband's necklace will be a silver disk that says "daddy of an angel" and a larger bronze one under it with the baby's names.  


This stuff is helping. :) 

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