I don't get it. Please help me understand. My 9 year old daughter has a "best" friend that never seems to be available. They play together at recess in a group but now recently are unable to have impromptu playdates outside of school. I suspect that it is because they have a new neighbor across the street who has become an instant playdate....and another girl who asks for playdates with my daughter's "best" friend faster than we can. I mean it almost is to the point that I need to schedule playdates weeks in advance! Am I missing something? The two haven't played together in weeks -- it's always a rain-check on their end. Maybe this is a diss. I don't know. But what I do know is that it makes me sad.