I'm 42, due with number 6 in August.
Not to be a buttinski, but I think you both (Tracyamber and Caritasrainbow) are talking past one another. For instance, Caritasrainbow, above you were talking about another site altogether and Tracyamber inferred you were talking about other subforums of mothering...
Is the desire for a thread in the vein of the 40+TTC thread, or a "group" for 40+ and pregnant? I believe the latter is more complicated and would require members to ask to join rather than just anybody being allowed to comment (like I'm doing here ).
Although I am not eligible yet, I agree that a 40+ only thread or group would be welcome.