I have a little niece with that as a birthday, and it is an adorable pink hearts and sweetness fest. But for a boy...I don't know...Sure sure, he'd be my little love bug, my forever Valentine, and why the heck am I being so gender obsessed and sexist, but....Imagine being in your 20's or 30's, and on your bday, its your job to remember to buy your girlfriend flowers and take her out to dinner. On your birthday, its all about buying sappy things for other people. Yuck! I'm nervous that the 14th will be the day, though, what with the full moon, and my being several days past due date...What do you think? Any upside to a boy Valentine bday, or can you invent one to make me feel better....? Thanks!
Would Valentine's day be a sucky bday for a boy...? I think yes!
I think that a someday significant other who is as considerate as your son deserves would be able to reach an agreement with him on how to celebrate Valentines Day to mutual satisfaction and also honor it being his birthday. If he hooks up with some shallow gal who gets mad that he doesn't go all out for V-day but doesn't do anything for him on his birthday, then he's probably better off without her anyway.